Every Woman should


Its great being a woman isn’t it? Nothing feels better than being a strong woman who can take care of her self and work hard for her own shit. Its good to have a man, but to have a good man, you need to be a good woman who is hard working, mature and deserving. So here goes, some of the things that i think every woman over 25 years should know / achieved;

  1. Know how to live alone, even if she doesn’t like it – This will teach you independence, budgeting, planning and control.
  2. Have enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own, even if she never wants to or needs to – This is what 3rd salaries are for. Make your own money, don’t be the type of a woman who waits for a man to make something out of her.
  3. Have something perfect to wear if the employer, or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour – and an option of two. I say have a suit, 2 great office outfits, a great fitting pair of jeans and 2 LBD’s.
  4. Have a youth she’s content to leave behind – Life is for living, take risks, get inked, go out of town, drink too much, smoke something illegal, enjoy your youth.
  5. Have a past juicy enough that she’s looking forward to retelling it in her old age – Since you don’t have Mau  mau stories, please don’t bore your grand-kids, have stories ; that out of town saga, your holiday in the states, that boy you have never forgotten…
  6. Have one friend who always makes her laugh… and one who lets her cry.
  7. Have a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family
  8. Have eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal, that will make her guests feel honored – I have my Pork chops with mashed potatoes. Yum yum
  9. Have a feeling of control over her destiny – take your self back to school, make decisions about where you live and what your drive. Don’t be afraid to do things your way
  10. Know how to fall in love without losing herself – A lesson i should have already learned before meeting PMK
  11. Know how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without ruining the friendship
  12. Know when to try harder… and when to walk away – In love and in life
  13. Know that she can’t change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents
  14. Know that her childhood may not have been perfect…but its over
  15. Know what she would and wouldn’t do for love – I know you never really learn enough not to get your heart broken, but every woman has a breaking point
  16. Know whom she can trust, whom she can’t, and why she shouldn’t take it personally
  17. Know where to go… be it to her best friend’s kitchen table… or a charming inn in the woods… when her soul needs soothing
  18. Know what she can and can’t accomplish in a day… a month…and a year…


“Women who seek to be equal to men lack ambition”


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